Completely agree on many points. I recently read / skimmed Whoopi Goldberg’s book, “If Someone Says, ‘You complete me!’, RUN.” It was refreshing to read her very feminist take on women’s needs and desires for sex. It was a fun, empowering read. She stands behind women needing sex, and goes as far as to say that sometimes we just want sex for sex, and it’s just FINE to have a (safe) booty call friend or two. Yasssss. There is so much outdated, idiotic advice out there. We all just need to follow our own desires, know ourselves, communicate our needs, and we’d all be so much happier!