This whole article was spot on for what I needed to hear today. This line in particular struck me. I have found myself with someone extremely self-sufficient and stable, with amazing partner qualities and similar life goals… yet I’ve been looking for a way out because my habit is to fall for people that are as needy and codependent as I am, or used to be. This read like a huge wake-up call to me. It’s like a breath of fresh air to own my own happiness, and to see someone through the lens of my more ‘centered self.’

Agnostic. Cancer survivor. Divorce survivor. Proud single mom. Freelance designer + illustrator. Stubborn optimist. Finding my new path.

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